after reading my friend's blog about 'ex'.. yes, i do agree. dia bilang, "mantan bukan sekedar bekas pacar".
yap, i really agree.
you know what ? I never delete all memories that I have with them. the photos, the things about them. it doesnt mean that I still want him back. for me, those things should be kept. barang-barang, foto2, surat, apapun itu, semua itu bagian dari kisah hidup gw. bahkan hal paling ga penting kaya bungkus permen pernah gw simpen.
because why, karena menurut gw kenangan bukan untuk dilupain. tapi ya untuk dikenang. lucu-lucunya waktu masih pacaran, bloon-bloonnya, seneng-senengnya, manis-manisnya, semuanya bisa kita rasain lagi saat ngeliat foto2 itu.. terus kita sadar, kenapa dulu gw bisa putus sama dia? salah siapa ?
then we'll learn,
learn to be better when we have a relationship again although with someone else.
